Guy or gal? Which one is better?

I got the idea of writing this entry based on the trending topic on Twitter several days ago. I can't recall what the trend is..sorry.


Between a guy friends(not GAY!!!) and girl friends, I think, girl is good at listening, I'm talking this in the girl perception. When we have problems, we like to share it with our own girl friends..sometimes, we may even cry together(I'm not..) . But, for me, I love to hang out with the guys. Because when hang with the guys, I can communicate in a different way. We don't giggle much when we're talking and sometimes, we can be more professional when doing our business.

One more thing, be friend with the opposite gender, there is no words such as revenge or something like that...look, for example, when I accidentally make my girl friend angry, or humiliate her, she'll holding a grudge on me..even if I'd explain everything to her! But for the guys, I think that they tends to forgive easily. This concludes that, girls sulks more. Yes, I admit it. Even if my guy friend make a tiny things that makes me angry, I just make angry faces..huh..what a jerk I am..

BUT! The disadvantage of be friend with the guys is...they like to ask you to do things they wanted to. Like, one of my friends, he was too lazy to queue up to pay for the books he bought, the easy way, he ask my classmate, to help him pay for the books! His "sweet" words, melted my friends...and he just walked away and waiting for the books. And homework. SOME of them, if they didn't know how to do the homework, they'll ask and begging their girl classmate to do it for them..

This entry conclude that, friends are important, it's depends who your friends are. A good friends may leads you to heaven, while evil friends may leads you straight to hell. Why? Because it's nature, that we listen to our friends more than our family. I often saw that, at my dorm, the girls they'll celebrates their friends, or what they call BFF's birthday, with laughter, joy, happiness, cakes, cokes, but you can't make sure they'll do the same with their old grandma's 80th birthday..for those who does it, you're a great person.

So, appreciate your friends, but not forgetting your family. <3